There are many self help courses to help you find your interests, and talents. The problem with many is that they depend on your schooling and past experiences to figure out what your "talent and interests" are. That is a problem when you haven't pursued any formal training at all or have been afraid to venture out into the dark unknown. How can you know you have a talent if you haven't expressed it yet? How can you know if you are interested in something until you HAVE to try it? Many, many people are skillful at a task without having a passion for it. Being skillful at a task is NOT the same thing as being passionate about it. Rather, it simply shows that you have been successful at learning how to do it. I have been spending some time finding out how to find your passion. There are some questions that you need to ask yourself.
1. Do you get totally involved in your passion and loose sense of time?
2. Who do you envy, why? Ok, now is it because you could see yourself doing the "it" you want to do or is it because they have some aspect of "it" that you want; for example time freedom, no boss, ability to make decision of how to spend your time. The reverse is also true. What is about what they do that you would hate...the I can't drag myself out of bed to do?
3. If you had a gift certificate for a free magazine which topic would you choose? YOU choose, not which magazine would you get for your children. What topic interests you?
4. Can you test the water? Can you volunteer, take a class, start slow in order to make sure that you are on track?
5. Is it what you dream about day in and day out?
6. Would you have to do your passion no matter what happened in your life?
These questions feel ambiguous but they are meant to be. If you have a wide view to finding your passion, you will be able to narrow it down as time passe. The point to remember is that all specialists start as generalists. So don't be afraid to start in a general direction. You can always change your focus over time.
talk to you later,
Karen
I am really giving myself a pep talk in all of this! :0)